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It Is What It Is – Andrea Merrell
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Casting the whole of your care [all your anxieties, all your worries, all your concerns, once and for all] on Him, for He cares for you affectionately and cares about you watchfully. I Peter 5:7 AMP

My friend put her hands on her hips, stomped her foot, and glared at me. “If you don’t like it . . . change it.” she shouted.

If it were only that easy, I thought. Change is hard, whether it’s a change of heart, change of pace, or change of life. The problem is, I’ve spent too much of my life trying to change things over which I had no authority or control. I’ve learned that, in certain situations, it simply is what it is, and no amount of fretting, whining, or complaining will make it any different.

On the other hand, I’ve had to learn to recognize what can be changed – changed by patience, persistence and consistency – changed by hard work, determination, and time – changed most of all by prayer. If you, like me,  have a difficult time knowing when the ball is in your court, pay close attention to the Serenity Prayer:

God, give me the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
courage to change the things I can,
and wisdom to know the difference.

When we take ownership of the things in our life that are under our direct control and stop wrestling with things that are not, we begin to walk in a greater measure of peace and a large percentage of our frustrations cease to exist. All of a sudden those mountains we made out of all the molehills in our life, don’t seem so ominous and threatening.

If you can’t move the mountain, climb it, find a way to go around it, tunnel through it, or learn to appreciate it and enjoy the view.

If you’re dealing with a problem, situation or person you know you cannot change, stop beating your head against that proverbial brick wall and give it to God. Cast the whole of your care on Him. Ask Him for His wisdom and the grace to accept it. Then, let it go. If it’s something that can change and God gives you the green light, go for it. Do all you can and let God handle the rest.

You’ll be delighted and amazed at what He’ll do in your life.

Andrea Merrell is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. She has written material for ladies’ groups, marriage retreats, skits, websites, and brochures, and is currently working on three novels and countless devotions. Andrea is a staff writer and copy editor for www.ChristianDevotions.us and www.DevoKids.com, and lives in South Carolina with her husband (and best friend), Charlie. Visit her website at www.andreamerrell.com. Read Andrea’s devotions.
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Sew What – Andrea Merrell
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Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might…Ecclesiastes 9:10 NIV

I hate sewing! A simple, elementary task women are supposed to enjoy – I avoid. Most men think sewing is a normal, natural, instinct in all women, just like being a mother. In the same way all those motherly tendencies seem to ooze out of our pores when a baby arrives on the scene, women are expected to hem pants, put in zippers, and recover the living room furniture – without instruction or prior knowledge – and without a hitch.

Sewing frustrates me. Even the sound of the word puts a knot in my stomach. And, don’t think I haven’t tried. I even bought a new sewing machine once, thinking there was some mystical power contained in the contraption that would do the job for me. Not so. After a constant struggle with thread knotting, needles breaking, and machine jamming, my nerves were shot and I decided sewing was definitely not my calling.

Years ago, my husband decided to show me the simplicity of this art. He purchased an old, dilapidated VW Beetle in dire need of bodywork and a paint job. The seat covers were ripped almost beyond recognition, so Charlie purchased material, made patterns from the old covers, and set out to make new ones. A couple of days later I was in for a shock. When I inspected the new plaid seat covers, not only did they fit like a glove, the stripes in the pattern lined up perfectly and looked like they came from the factory. Charlie was very proud of his accomplishment, but couldn’t understand why his excitement was not contagious. He looked a bit deflated when I walked away and said, “Fine, from now on, you do all the sewing.”

That was over thirty years ago and, to this day, my body still shudders at the thought of threading a needle (plus, now I have a harder time seeing it well enough). Nowadays, I pack up my needy garments and take them to an alteration shop. The Bible says to beware of angels among us, and these savvy professionals must surely quality. God bless all you brave people who enjoy things like basting, hemming, and darning. There will be extra stars in your crown – trust me.

The important thing to remember is that God created each of us with different gifts, talents, and abilities and He expects us to use them to bring honor to Him. Find what your hands do best, then do it with all your might.

Andrea Merrell lives in the upstate of South Carolina and is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. Andrea is a staff writer and Associate Editor for www.ChristianDevotions.us. She is a contributing writer and Copy Editor for www.DevoKids.com.  Her work has been published in Spirit & Heart: A Devotional Journey, Faith & Finances: In God We Trust, The Write Life, and Extraordinary Answers to Prayer. She also writes for www.cornerstonegreenville.com. Visit her website at www.andreamerrell.com. Read Andrea’s devotions.
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No Strings Attached – Andrea Merrell
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For God so loved the world that He gave . . . John 3:16

In today’s society, we are flooded with commercials, advertising, and marketing ploys everywhere we turn. Billboards line the highways, and movies and television programs are continuously interrupted with someone promoting products we can’t live without. We can’t even check our e-mail or surf the net without pop-up ads of every description getting in the way. Each company, manufacturer, and vendor has a product just a little bigger, better, stronger or less expensive than the next. The competition escalates as each tries to outdo the other. We hear high-powered sales pitches and bogus claims for everything from vitamins to luxury automobiles. We’re promised low payments, no interest, and factory rebates. We’re offered lifetime memberships, extended warranties, and a slimmer, firmer body in just two weeks or your money will be gladly refunded. Many times we’re lured by the promise to buy-one-get-one-free.

“If it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn’t.” How many times have we heard that old saying?We can get ourselves in trouble when we don’t check the source, read the fine print, and use some good old common sense. As a result of all this high-pressured commercialism, people can become hesitant, skeptical and even cynical, ultimately shying away from things that are honest, true, and genuine. Some people become wary of everything, including salvation, because they are looking for the catch.

The great news for us is that God’s promises and blessings are truly free for the asking and the receiving. Jesus shed his blood, hung on a cross, and paid the ultimate price so that we could be forgiven, healed, and restored. Through His sacrifice, we can be filled with His peace, His joy and His wisdom. Included in the bargain is His unconditional and never ending love, His mercy, and His grace. We are also promised eternity with Him in Heaven.

Jesus said, Come unto me, and that invitation is still open to all who will receive it—no strings attached!

Andrea Merrell lives in the upstate of South Carolina and is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. Andrea is a staff writer and Associate Editor for www.ChristianDevotions.us. She is a contributing writer and Copy Editor for www.DevoKids.com.  Her work has been published in Spirit & Heart: A Devotional Journey, Faith & Finances: In God We Trust, The Write Life, and Extraordinary Answers To Prayer. She also writes for www.cornerstonegreenville.com. Visit her website at www.andreamerrell.com.

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Spiritual Triage – Andrea Merrell
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Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me. Matthew 25:40 NIV

Webster’s defines triage as, “the sorting of and allocation of treatment (as in an emergency room, battle or disaster), according to a system of priorities designed to maximize the number of survivors.” In other words, people receive care according to the urgency of their need.

I’ve always been fascinated with the process of triage and a good example can be taken from one of my favorite TV shows, MASH. Whenever the wounded were brought into the compound, everyone snapped to attention, dropped whatever they were doing, and ran to the victims to determine what had to be done. “Severe chest wound–prep him and get him to OR–this soldier’s lost a lot of blood–superficial wounds; this one can wait.” The one with the greatest need got the most attention—fast and without any question, discussion, or confusion.

I’ve often thought about how this works in the Christian life and, especially, the church. What if someone walks (or staggers) into one of our services reeking of alcohol, unkempt, and shabbily dressed? Maybe this person has lived a hard life of poverty, addiction, and destruction. Or, maybe it’s a husband who just lost his child, a woman whose husband walked out on her, or a teenage runaway full of piercings and tattoos, with nowhere to go and no one to turn to.

How do we respond? Do we run to them and allow God’s love to flow through us, or do we turn and run away from them, seeking those less needy and offensive? What happens when our own Christian brothers and sisters fall? Are we quick to help them up and restore them, or do we turn our backs and let them make it the best way they can? It has been said in church circles that Christians are notorious for “shooting their wounded.” That’s a hard statement, but it holds much truth. The question is, how can we change the scenario?

Everyone has issues and is hurting to some degree. It’s up to us as believers to be sensitive to those around us, ready to extend God’s mercy and grace to them. When we minister to others, we minister to the Lord. Just as the Good Samaritan stopped and took care of the beaten man in the ditch, we are called to do the same. The need may be large or small, but God has called and equipped us to do the job. He wants us to be ready to do a little spiritual triage.

The choice is ours. Will you accept the challenge?

Andrea Merrell lives in the upstate of South Carolina and is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. Andrea is a staff writer and Associate Editor for www.ChristianDevotions.us. She is a contributing writer and Copy Editor for www.DevoKids.com.  Her work has been published in Spirit & Heart: A Devotional Journey, Faith & Finances: In God We Trust, The Write Life, and Extraordinary Answers To Prayer. She also writes for www.cornerstonegreenville.com. Visit her website at www.andreamerrell.com. Read Andrea’s devotions.
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Budget War – Andrea Merrell
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Who then is that faithful and wise steward? Luke 12:42 NKJV

“You want us to do WHAT? You’ve got to be kidding!”

That was my initial response when my husband first suggested we live on a budget. We were barely getting by, our paychecks spent before we ever saw them. The thought of taking our meager income and slicing and dicing it into categories seemed ridiculous.

After many discussions about this new financial strategy, I finally relented. I was willing to give it a try, if only to prove it wouldn’t work.

I remember sitting down with my checkbook, calculator, and notebook, and stretching a few dollars into categories: tithe, housing, utilities, food, insurance, car, and miscellaneous. The numbers were comical.

“This is crazy.”

“Be patient,” my husband said. “It may take a few weeks to get us on track, but I know we’ll be better off.”

Better off? Right! How was I supposed to pad these pages and pay our bills at the same time? I balked—I complained—then I did what I should have done in the first place—I prayed. Lord, if this is the right thing for us, I need your help. Please show me what to do.

It’s amazing what God will do when we invite Him to get involved in our stuff. In less than a month, the balance in our checkbook went from less than $100 to over $1,000. Our bills were all being paid on time, our other needs met, and there was even money left over toward the next month’s expenses. We could also see exactly where our money was going and it eliminated a lot of waste.

What I thought would be financial bondage actually turned out to be financial freedom. For the first time in our lives, we didn’t have to wonder where the money would come from. In a very short time, my categories were well padded and I added savings and vacation. My years of constant worry over money had come to an end—thanks to God and my wise husband.

It’s been over twenty years since I created that notebook and I still use it to this day. In fact, I can’t imagine NOT being on a budget, especially in this crazy economy. It has provided tremendous peace of mind (and a lot less arguing over money).

If you’re in a hard place financially, living paycheck to paycheck, give budgeting a try. It might be difficult in the beginning, but the benefits will be well worth the effort.

Andrea Merrell is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. Her writing has been published in Spirit & Heart: A Devotional Journey, Faith & Finances: In God We Trust, The Write Life, and True Stories of Extraordinary Answers to Prayer by Guideposts. Andrea is a staff writer and Associate Editor for www.ChristianDevotions.us and Copy Editor for www.DevoKids.com. She lives in South Carolina with her husband (and best friend), Charlie. Visit her website at www.andreamerrell.com. Read Andrea’s devotions


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A Lasting Tradition – Andrea Merrell
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Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift! II Corinthians 9:15 NIV

But what about our traditions? I thought as holiday plans were being made. Don’t they count? Thankfully, I put my feelings aside and kept those questions to myself—not something I usually do.

We were discussing when, where, and how we would spend Christmas as a family. Family—oh how the meaning of that word changes when you get married—when your kids get married—when your kids have kids. It’s not that change is bad, it’s just difficult and all parties must be willing to bend.

Traditions are wonderful but even the best of them have a shelf life. No matter how much we want things to stay the same, life happens and we find ourselves moving in different directions, trying to keep the flame alive.

I remember waking early on Christmas morning as a child in my grandparents’ home in South Carolina, and running to see what was under the tree. Mama and Papa were always waiting for me with breakfast, hot chocolate, and all sorts of goodies. They made everything special and I could never imagine spending Christmas anywhere but with them. Then I moved to Florida, got married, and started my own family. The first Christmas morning in my Tampa home was going well until I realized how much I missed my grandparents. I cried. My husband consoled. I cried more. Change had begun in our household.

As time progressed, we started taking turns with our plans for the holidays. Eventually, we moved back to South Carolina, my grandparents passed away, and my kids got married and started their own families. Now I find myself, once again, taking turns. There is a part of me that still wants “MY turn,” but I’ve learned it’s far better to be flexible and avoid arguments and hard feelings that would put a damper on our time together. Now, I’m happy with whatever works best for everyone—time spent as a family on Christmas Eve, breakfast on Christmas morning, or a big dinner Christmas afternoon. We’ve done it all and it still changes from year-to-year. You could say our traditions are in a continual state of transition, but as long as it works, I refuse to complain. Being with family is worth whatever sacrifices need to be made.

The important thing to remember is that it’s not about where you spend the holidays or when you get together. It’s about how you celebrate them. It’s not about the food, gifts, or decorations. It’s not about whose home or what time of day. Christmas music, eggnog, and stockings hung by the fire are empty and meaningless without the love of family and friends, and the real “reason for the season”—Jesus Christ, born in a smelly stable as the greatest gift to all mankind. Jesus, King of Kings and Lord of Lords—a tradition engraved in our hearts that will last forever.

Andrea Merrell is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. She has written material for ladies’ groups, marriage retreats, skits, websites, and brochures, and is currently working on three novels and countless devotions. Andrea is a staff writer and copy editor for www.ChristianDevotions.us and www.DevoKids.com, and lives in South Carolina with her husband (and best friend), Charlie. Visit her website at www.andreamerrell.com. Read Andrea’s devotions

God Shall Supply – Andrea Merrell
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But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19

A friend e-mailed me yesterday and asked how I was doing. I replied, “The past couple of weeks have not been some of my finest hours.” I went on to explain that I was scheduled for eye surgery (a corneal transplant and cataract surgery in my right eye) and, in the meantime, because of some stomach issues, I had gone through a battery of tests and ended up having my gall bladder removed—only two weeks before the eye surgery.

The enemy had wreaked havoc with my emotions and I found myself in a battle with depression. Been there—done that—should know the signs and be able to guard against the attack. But sometimes it sneaks up on me and, before I know what hit me, I’m in so deep, it’s hard to get out without help.

Just when I was trying to get a grip and de-stress, I found out how much the eye surgery was going to cost. That news, coupled with the fees for all the diagnostic tests and the gall bladder surgery, put me over the edge. How could we possibly afford all this? What would our insurance cover? Guilt was creeping in about creating a huge pile of medical bills for our family. I felt completely overwhelmed and helpless. My life was spinning out of control.

I made a phone call to a lady I barely know, about doing some editing for her book. The dam broke and I unloaded on her. It was a God-moment. She listened, she encouraged, she reminded me of things I already knew—and she prayed for me. My peace returned, along with joy and hope. She told me to pick a scripture and use it every time worry and doubt tried to step in.

Suddenly, every time a negative thought came about the bills, these words shot through my spirit: But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. It was like a ping-pong match. The enemy would fire a shot and God’s Word would slap it right back in his face. But my God... Whatever I need, God shall supply—money to pay the bills—healing—peace–strength—joy—wisdom. It really doesn’t matter. His supply is abundant and He delights in blessing His children.

Do you have a need today? Does it look impossible? Don’t worry; nothing is impossible with God. He is faithful, his Word is true, and He SHALL supply!

Andrea Merrell is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. She has written material for ladies’ groups, marriage retreats, skits, websites, and brochures, and is currently working on three novels and countless devotions. Andrea is a staff writer and copy editor for www.ChristianDevotions.us and www.DevoKids.com, and lives in South Carolina with her husband (and best friend), Charlie. Visit her website at www.andreamerrell.com. Read Andrea’s devotions

And Then Some – Andrea Merrell
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Test me in this, says the LORD Almighty, and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it. Malachi 3:10 NIV

When my husband and I got married, our combined income was less than $200 per week. Our house payment was only $125, but with all the other normal expenses, things were pretty tight. We literally lived from paycheck to paycheck.

I’ve always been the one to handle the finances and I would dutifully figure our bills for a month or two at a time. Many times I would announce to my husband: “Honey, in six weeks we won’t have money for groceries or gas.” He would give me that “bless her heart” look (and sometimes roll his eyes), but he never worried or got upset like I wanted him to. Pity parties are more fun if you have someone to party with, but he would never accept my invitation.

In those early years of marriage, even when we weren’t serving God and living in obedience to His Word, my husband had enough faith to believe everything would be okay—and it always was. Just like the woman with the vat of oil that never ran out and the crowds that were fed with a handful of fish and bread, we always had what we needed, when we needed it—and then some.

As we learned the principles of tithing, giving, and honoring God with our possessions, we found our bills paid, our needs met, and our storehouse full. There was always enough to give away or sow for the next harvest. Even now, after 39 years of marriage, God amazes me with the creative and unexpected ways He chooses to provide. He has proved His faithfulness to us time and time again.

If you’re struggling financially, don’t lose heart. Cast that care over on God and ask Him to get involved. When you trust God with your money, give according to His Word, and become a wise and faithful steward over whatever He gives you, He will throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out His blessings.

What’s the benefit of being a covenant partner with God? Having everything you need—and then some.

Andrea Merrell is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. She has written material for ladies’ groups, marriage retreats, skits, websites, and brochures, but prefers writing fiction, articles and devotions. Andrea is a staff writer and Associate Editor  for www.ChristianDevotions.us and is featured in Spirit & Heart: A Devotional Journey and Faith & Finances: In God We Trust. She is Copy Editor for  www.DevoKids.com, and lives in South Carolina with her husband (and best friend), Charlie. Visit her website at www.andreamerrell.com. Read Andrea’s devotions.

For Better or Worse – Andrea Merrell
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So again I say, a man must love his wife as a part of himself; and the wife must see to it that she deeply respects her husband — obeying, praising, and honoring him.
Ephesians 5:33 TLB

When I got married, I’ll have to admit I paid little attention to what the preacher said. My goal was to make it though the ceremony without tears, without passing out, and without committing a major faux pas. When I repeated the words, “for better or worse, in sickness and in health, ‘til death do us part,” they were just canned words with little meaning – at least at the time.

Being young and in love can cause us to be short-sighted and naïve. We tend to live in the moment, get caught up in the excitement and romance, and fail to see down the road when romance has a head-on collision with reality.

Saying “I do” meant a lot more than I realized. What I was actually saying was: “I do dishes, I do laundry, I do dirty diapers, I do nursing duty, I do chauffeur service,” and so on. All that “I doing” earned me a BA (bad attitude) until I found out it was part of the package.

Storybook romance paints an unrealistic picture of wedded bliss, perfect relationships, and happily ever after. That’s the better part and most of us think that’s what we signed up for.

The true test comes when we’re faced with the worse. That’s when we have to make a decision. We can turn and run or dig in our heels, call on the love of God to see us through, and give it all we’ve got.

When my husband said “I do,” I’m sure he didn’t expect to deal with bad hair days, difficult in-laws, and PMS. But, for thirty-nine years he’s put up with and loved me through it all – sickness, insecurity, disappointment, tears, and heartbreak. He’s also been there through the laughter and the good times, the joy of raising children, and the thrill of becoming a grandparent. He’s always by my side, sharing my faith, being my friend, and cheering me on to pursue my dreams.

If you want the real thing, invite God to be the Lord of your life and your marriage. He will bless you beyond measure and the better will always outweigh the worse.

Andrea Merrell is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. She enjoys writing fiction, articles, and devotions and is featured in Spirit & Heart: A Devotional Journey and Faith & Finances: In God We Trust.  Andrea is a staff writer and Associate Editor for www.ChristianDevotions.us.  She is also a contributing writer and copy editor for www.DevoKids.com, and lives in South Carolina with her husband (and best friend), Charlie. Visit her at: www.andreamerrell.com or www.andreamerrell.blogspot.com.  Read Andrea’s devotions

Evil Money – Andrea Merrell
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For the love of money is the root of all evil . . . I Timothy 6:10

Money is the root of all evil—true or false? While many will say “True,” the Bible tells us it’s the love of money that is evil and destructive. When money becomes our focus it hinders our walk with God, because it puts Him in second place.

Is money necessary? Absolutely. Will it solve all our problems? Absolutely not. In The Word For You Today, Bob Gass puts it this way: “Money will buy you a bed, but not sleep; books, but not brains; food, but not an appetite; a house, but not a home; medicine, but not health; luxuries, but not happiness; image, but not character; and religion, but not salvation.”

The Bible is filled with instructions about how we are to use our money and it lets us know that attitude, along with obedience, is key. God is our provider—the source of everything we need. Blessing and provision come to us when we put God first, establish a covenant with Him through our faithful giving, and become good stewards with whatever He gives us.

When we place our trust in money instead of the One who supplies “all our needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus,” we miss the mark.

I have learned that the less I worry, the more peace I possess. The more I give, the more is given back to me. The more I honor God with my “stuff,” the more He takes care of whatever I need. He even gives me the “desires of my heart” when I take delight in Him.

God is faithful. He loves us and promises to take care of us. All He asks is that we trust Him.

Will you trust Him today?

Andrea Merrell is a freelance writer and editor with a passion to help others see God’s Word as practical and relevant for ordinary, everyday life. She has written material for ladies’ groups, marriage retreats, skits, websites, and brochures, and is currently working on three novels and countless devotions. Andrea is a staff writer and copy editor for www.ChristianDevotions.us and www.DevoKids.com, and lives in South Carolina with her husband (and best friend), Charlie. Visit her website at www.andreamerrell.com. Read Andrea’s devotions