You want what you don’t have…And yet the reason you don’t have what you want is that you don’t ask God for it. James 4:2
My daughter was home for her first visit after having moved several hours away. It was her first place on her own. I think any mom can appreciate the joy with which I greeted her and enjoyed her during the weekend. I wanted to make her stay perfect and to give her all her favorite things to do and to eat.
I KNOW my daughter, so there were several times when the conversation went something like this:
“You know, Mom, what I’d really like that I haven’t had for a long time?”
“Grilled cheese sandwich, Lex?”
She laughingly answered, “Get OUT of my head! How do you always know what I’m going to say!?”
I was thinking this morning about how happy those times made me. To know my daughter and to anticipate her needs: but not only that—to hear her ASK for them. If I’d gone all weekend just handing her things that I knew she wanted, there would not have been the same joy…it would have been like I was serving her instead.
Do you see where I’m going? You want what you don’t have…And yet the reason you don’t have what you want is that you don’t ask God for it. Haven’t you wondered why God made this statement in His word? Why does He make us ask for things in prayer when He already knows what we will say?
It’s because He is our loving FATHER, not our servant or errand-boy…He takes delight in giving us good things…but we need to ask for them first. It makes our joy, and His, complete.
Cynthia Lott Vogel is a writer from Northeast PA. She is currently going through “empty nest syndrome,” made all the more difficult because she is disabled and home alone. She takes joy in communing with the Lord and in writing about what He is showing her. www.cynthialottvogel.blogspot.com. Read Cynthia’s devotions.


