She stretches out her hands to the spool of wool, and her hands grasp the spindle. She extends her hand to the poor, and she stretches out her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household, for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She makes coverings for herself; Her clothing is fine linen and purple. Proverbs 31:19-22 NASB
I dreaded Mother’s Day for years. Not because I was not a mother, but because I knew I did not live up to “Wonder Woman.” Not the TV personality, but the Proverbs 31 super woman. I knew at some point during the season, some preacher would extol the praises of the “Virtuous Woman.”
I hated hearing about how she did this and she did that, especially the part where she got up before dawn to feed her servant girls, and her lamp never went out. I wanted to know how, with all her good deeds of buying, planting, and harvesting her fields, sewing, cooking and reaching out to the needy, she strengthened her body by getting some sleep. Caring for her household as she did, where did she find the time to do it all?
She not only put me to shame (if it was true), but I felt I couldn’t compete, so why even bother.
One year, with Mother’s Day coming, I resolved to take her on. I started reading Proverbs 31 every day to find what made her tick. First, she lived in a culture of servants, but I didn’t. She also got up early to assign them their duties. There was no lounging around for her. I decided I could do that, I had two children and a husband. We could all pitch in.
Secondly, she was an organized person, not leaving anything to chance. No matter the season, she cared for what needed doing, not wasting her hours with mindless activities. Again, I became determined. I turned off my TV, resolving not to watch “The Young and the Ruthless” or “The Days of our Lies” anymore. Sewing and laundry were no longer a chore. I baked with my children and even had time to volunteer. God’s Word became more relevant in my life as my love for Him grew.
This person I once loathed still challenges me today. As the seasons of my life change, I have learned to admire wonder woman. Even though, as a young wife and mom in the 60-70’s, I did not have the resources available to women today, such as MOPS, Woman of Faith, or Focus on the Family, God took His Word, brought it to my level and gave me the tools to transform me into who I am today.
He can and will do the same for you. Won’t you let Him?
Leah Mix has been married to her wonderful husband, Gary, for 39 years. A transplant from Upstate New York to Florida, Leah experienced culture shock, but now loves her home and wouldn’t want to live anywhere else. She found out when God plants you, He will make you happy blooming there. Leah is the mother of two and grandmother of five. Writing is a new venture for Leah, but has been a dream for years. She is excited about the future because she has found, God is good – all the time. Read Leah’s devotions.
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