Tasty Opportunities – Marilyn Nutter
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Be very careful, then, how you live-not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity… Ephesians 5:15

Fifty years have passed, but I can still see my grandma bending over in her vegetable garden gathering the fruit of her labor. As immigrants making a new life and raising five children, she and my grandfather lived wisely. They ate very little red meat, and pastas served with vegetables were often a main dish. One unique dish my grandma served came from zucchini flowers. Knowing that these flowers wouldn’t produce a vegetable, she picked them rather than let them wither and die. She chopped them, made a batter for dipping and fried them. It was a predictable dish to serve during zucchini season. Immigrants wasted nothing.

Ephesians gives us words of caution; to be wise, live carefully, and make the most of every opportunity that comes our way. Another translation says, “Walk circumspectly” (i.e. look around and check things out; what opportunity do you see that you can act on wisely?).

Today’s economy brings challenges. Many are living scripts characterized by unemployment, reduction to a single income, falling home values, or adjusting budgets.

The minute we wake up we are given the gift of twenty-four hours filled with opportunities. We might have an opportunity to be creative, learn something new, deepen our relationship with God, move toward a goal, encourage someone, meet a need or adopt a new way of managing our money.

Perhaps you are one who has a need. Look at my grandma’s model and waste nothing—even zucchini flowers. Take hold of the opportunity to be wise and distinguish needs from wants. Perhaps wisdom includes seeking financial advice. Or maybe you are the one who can meet a need in another’s life. Take an inventory today of your opportunities. How can you walk wisely and make the most of your twenty-four hours?

Marilyn Nutter is the author of three devotional books: Dressed up Moms’ Devotions to Go, Tea Lovers’ Devotions to Go, and Diva Delights Devotions to Go. She and her husband are new residents of the Charlotte, NC area. Marilyn enjoys speaking to women’s groups about discovering extraordinary treasures in ordinary days. Her blog, http://grandmothersviews.blogspot.com/ is designed to encourage boomer women to put puzzle pieces together in their new life season. Visit her website at www.marilynnutter.com.

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What’s Your Zip Code? – Marilyn Nutter
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He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress, my God in whom I trust. Psalm 91:1-2

“We’re moving,” I told my friend on the phone.

Jane laughed at my news. “I’m glad I started writing your addresses in pencil in my address book.”

She was right. We had moved a lot in our forty years of marriage. Some were for jobs, others because our family was expanding. Now, it was due to retirement. Each move brought with it adjustments—some more so than others. When we moved to a new community, there was much to learn—finding new doctors and dentists, a church, and a school for our children. We were strangers in a neighborhood. No one knew our names or our history. There were times when I was lonely, but eventually we met new people and made some lasting friends.

The Psalmist tells us that the dwelling place for security is in the shelter of the Most High God. It’s a place that offers rest in the midst of changing circumstances and a place of safety when we’re faced with the unknown.  When we don’t know what to do next, He offers security and refuge. He says, “Come and rest here,” when we’re exhausted from going in too many directions.

Yes, the shelter of the Most High offers me a permanent zip code. We can reside and we remain there, because it is a secure and trustworthy place. Are you facing a challenge today? Do you have choices to make? Check your zip code. God promises shelter and a refuge. His residence is a place of safety and rest. He is faithful. You can write the address in ink.

Marilyn Nutter is the author of three devotional books: Dressed up Moms’ Devotions to Go, Tea Lovers’ Devotions to Go, and Diva Delights Devotions to Go. She and her husband are new residents of the Charlotte, NC area. Marilyn enjoys speaking to women’s groups about discovering extraordinary treasures in ordinary days. Her blog, http://grandmothersviews.blogspot.com/ is designed to encourage boomer women to put puzzle pieces together in their new life season. Visit her website at www.marilynnutter.com.

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Changing Seasons – Marilyn Nutter
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To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. Ecclesiastes 3:1

Two young moms having lunch with their daughters caught my eye as I enjoyed a meal with my friend Bev. The girls wore pretty smocked dresses and as one mom passed our table, I felt a tinge of nostalgia. I found myself wishing I could go back in time and have my little girls again. I mentioned that to Bev.

“She’s probably wishing she could be in our place. Two women having an adult conversation and an uninterrupted lunch,” she replied.

Isn’t that the way it often is? We wish for another season of life, wanting to rush through our present, thinking that the next season will be better, or linger in the past. Yet this scripture reminds us each season and each day has its merit and purpose. To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.

Today is a gift. That’s why it’s called the “present.”

God is interested in doing something in our lives in every season. Some seasons are strengthening and character building. Some are quiet times where we learn to wait, others are filled with activity. At times, different seasons seem to put our gifts on hold—waiting for another time and opportunity to be expressed. Some seasons hold change…as in new jobs, children, or a move. Opportunities, busyness, the status quo—our days look different but God has a purpose in and for each one.

What do you think about your current season? Are you contented or anxious? Adjust your attitude. Make a list of what you are learning and what opportunities and benefits you have. Take time to listen and look for God at work and the gifts He is giving you.

Marilyn Nutter is the author of three devotional books: Dressed up Moms’ Devotions to Go, Tea Lovers’ Devotions to Go, and Diva Delights Devotions to Go. She and her husband are new residents of the Charlotte, NC area. Marilyn enjoys speaking to women’s groups about discovering extraordinary treasures in ordinary days. Her blog, http://grandmothersviews.blogspot.com/ is designed to encourage boomer women to put puzzle pieces together in their new life season. Visit her website at www.marilynnutter.com.

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What’s Oleo? – Marilyn Nutter
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Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, the old has gone, the new has come! 2 Cor. 5:17

My daughter was looking through one of my cookbooks trying to find a cookie recipe. “What’s oleo?” she asked. I chuckled, thinking that I hadn’t heard that word in years.

“It’s an old term for margarine. People used to call it oleo margarine and sometimes, oleo. Actually, when margarine was first introduced, I understand it was white. It included a yellow bead that women had to squeeze to make the margarine yellow. That was even before my time.”

Kate laughed. “Things sure have changed.”

“Yes and now we have margarine in sticks, tubs, and spreads, not to mention real butter.”

Young people today don’t know what “oleo” is. A phonograph record is foreign to them and they have no idea how we ever used a wringer-type washer. Things have changed. The apostle Paul reminds us people have an invitation to change too. When we come to know Christ we are new creations, the old has passed away and the new has come. Paul tells us to embrace our new life in Christ.

Oleo is just one of the old things that have passed away. We have new life and a blank page each day waiting to be filled with God’s plans, promises, and purposes. His grace and power are ours instead of our self-effort and weakness.

Pray today to put away your old self. Embrace the salvation Christ offers. Pray and know that you are forgiven and have new life. Let God show you how to live in His grace and wisdom as a new creation.

Marilyn Nutter is the author of three devotional books: Dressed up Moms’ Devotions to Go, Tea Lovers’ Devotions to Go, and Diva Delights Devotions to Go. She and her husband are new residents of the Charlotte, NC area. Marilyn enjoys speaking to women’s groups about discovering extraordinary treasures in ordinary days. Her blog, http://grandmothersviews.blogspot.com is designed to encourage boomer women to put puzzle pieces together in their new life season. Visit her website at www.marilynnutter.com.

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Making Sense – Marilyn Nutter
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But while Joseph was there in prison, the Lord was with him; he showed him kindness and granted him favor in the eyes of the prison warden. Genesis 39: 20a

“I have the easier sections done, but there are still a lot of ‘holes’ to fill in,” Pat wrote.  ”As I work on my jigsaw puzzle, I look at all the remaining pieces that seem to make no sense to me. Where do they fit? What order should I follow? I am about ready to put the pieces back in the box and not finish the puzzle.”

Joseph, a young man with lots of talent probably thought many times: “This doesn’t make sense.” His brothers threw him into a cistern and sold him to travelers. He went to work for Potiphar, an Egyptian captain of the guard, and was wrongly accused of improprieties by Potiphar’s wife. Joseph did the “right thing” and fled her advances, but was captured and ended up in jail. He waited three years to be released. No, it just didn’t make sense.

Joseph hung on and we can too. As unpleasant and bizarre as Joseph’s experiences appeared, God never left him. Even though it seemed there were “holes” in Joseph’s life, God was refining his character and preparing him with skills for what would happen thirteen years later. More than anything else, God never took His eyes off of Joseph.

Does this remind you of your life? Have you done the right thing? Is there something that isn’t making sense? Did a friend back out of a business deal when everything seemed to be proceeding on track? Have you worked hard but the savings account doesn’t grow? Have you been a good steward of your health but a diagnosis has blindsided you? Is it hard to see the purposes of what is going on? Are you looking at “holes” and random pieces instead of the pieces that fit?

Don’t put the puzzle pieces back in the box. Pray, seek trusted counsel, and look at the encouragement God’s word offers. Continue to work on the puzzle. A picture will emerge. God hasn’t taken His eyes off of you.

Marilyn Nutter is the author of three devotional books: Dressed up Moms’ Devotions to Go, Tea Lovers’ Devotions to Go, and Diva Delights Devotions to Go. She and her husband are new residents of the Charlotte, NC area. Marilyn enjoys speaking to women’s groups about discovering extraordinary treasures in ordinary days. Her blog, http://grandmothersviews.blogspot.com/ is designed to encourage boomer women to put puzzle pieces together in their new life season. Visit her website at www.marilynnutter.com. Read Marilyn’s devotions

Strong Roots – Marilyn Nutter
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“But blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.”
Jeremiah 17: 7-8 (NIV)

It was May and time to plant some flowers. Choosing a spot near our maple tree, I began to dig and found that the hard spot I hit wasn’t rock, but the tree’s roots! As I cleared away some of the dirt, I was amazed at the size of the roots and how far they had spread.

Jeremiah compared a tree’s strong, well-developed roots to a person who trusts God. The tree sends out roots, able to withstand heat, wind, and even periods of drought. Likewise, the stronger our roots in God, the more we are able to deal with trials, change and disappointments.

Today, it’s not unusual to change jobs several times in the course of a career. Children go off to college and find jobs away from home. Neighbors come and go and we don’t have time to get to know them. Today’s grandparents have a new title; “long distance grandparents.” We wonder if our family will have roots. Jeremiah says, “Yes, you can. Develop intimacy with God. Find security in Him. No worries.” Our root system is developed as we are “watered” with Bible study, prayer and fellowship with other Christians.

My maple tree’s strong root system allowed it to stand strong during our long winter, replenish its leaves in spring and display brilliant colors in autumn. Just like that tree, our strong roots—our growing faith in God—help us stay strong in all seasons of life and spread that faith to our children.

You and your family can have roots, replenish, bear fruit and display brilliant colors no matter where you live or work or how many miles separate you. Take time to develop your prayer life, read the Word, and share the reality of who God is and how He is working in your life. Shed tears and celebrate together as you share prayer requests and answers. The better we know God, we can say as Jeremiah did, “No worries.”

Marilyn Nutter is the author of three devotional books: Dressed up Moms’ Devotions to Go, Tea Lovers’ Devotions to Go, and Diva Delights Devotions to Go. She and her husband are new residents of the Charlotte, NC area. Marilyn enjoys speaking to women’s groups about discovering extraordinary treasures in ordinary days. Visit her website at www.marilynnutter.com.Read Marilyn’s devotions

New Places – Marilyn Nutter
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“A lizard can be caught with your hand, yet it is found in kings’ palaces.” Proverbs 30:28

As a new bride, my husband and I moved to the US Virgin Islands to teach in the public schools. It was a tropical paradise with palm trees, turquoise water and white sandy beaches. Despite those pleasures, I needed to adjust. Our drinking water came from a cistern, so we had to filter it. It took some practice, but I developed an ear for a delightful St. Thomian accent. I learned that you never conducted business or a social conversation unless you began with a “good morning” or “good afternoon.” Those adjustments were relatively easy, but when I found a lizard on my bedroom wall, I shrieked. I didn’t grow up with pets; a dog would have been fine, but a lizard? In the house? “Lizards are good,” my husband said when he rushed into the bedroom in response to my scream. “They eat bugs; they’re friendly creatures.”

Proverbs says that lizards can be found in two places. We can catch them with our hands and they can live in palaces; or, in my case, the wall of our apartment. Lizards are small enough to fit in our hands yet are versatile enough to climb walls, occupy rain forests, and work their way into homes. They’re adaptable creatures. They have a job to do and they make themselves at home.

Growing up in the comfort of my extended family in a city in upstate NY, I never imagined that I would leave and begin my teaching career on an island in the Caribbean. From snowy winters to a tropical island—what a change! When we moved back to the US, my career expanded to employment in college teaching and long-term health care. Each new opportunity took me to a new skill level. I learned new aspects of my profession. I adapted, I changed and I grew.

Never underestimate where God can take you. Perhaps you are allowing fear to trump stepping out for a new opportunity. Perhaps someone has told you that you “can’t do it.” Perhaps you hear the words, “It won’t work.” Whatever challenges you face, look at the example of the lizard. His extremes show us that God made him adaptable and flexible. God can take us to places we can’t even imagine. Won’t you seek after Him and go?

Marilyn Nutter is the author of three devotional books: Dressed up Moms’ Devotions to Go, Tea Lovers’ Devotions to Go, and Diva Delights Devotions to Go. She and her husband are new residents of the Charlotte, NC area. Marilyn enjoys speaking to women’s groups about discovering extraordinary treasures in ordinary days. Visit her website at www.marilynnutter.com. Read Marilyn’s devotions

Staying in Shape – Marilyn Nutter
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“Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

I sent a quick text message to my daughter Kate, “What are you doing?”

Her reply came immediately. “Getting ready to exercise. Just bought a new DVD. Talk later.”

Kate is disciplined when it comes to maintaining a regular exercise program and she’s in great shape. I have an assortment of DVDs in my cabinet too: Pilates, dealing with trouble spots, strength and cardio, stretching and flexibility, and walking in a confined area. I am not nearly as disciplined as Kate and my body shows it. The promotional messages on the DVD cases persuade us that exercise will improve health, shape bodies, reduce stress and boost performance. With benefits like that, I don’t know why I procrastinate. Staying in shape is a mindset.

The apostle Paul gives us a guideline for maintaining a regular exercise program to stay in shape too. Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. His message was to continue in a disciplined lifestyle with a focus on God, not circumstances. Developing an attitude of joy, maintaining a prayer relationship, and learning to give thanks in situations (not for them) are Paul’s recommended ways to get and stay in shape – get our minds in shape for the word.

Yes, joy energizes us, prayer strengthens us and gratitude changes our focus.

Are you stretched today or overwhelmed by circumstances over which you have no control? Consider Paul’s instructions and their benefits. Remember that while happiness depends on circumstances and people, joy has an upward focus. As we develop a regular prayer life, we will see strength emerge. When we cultivate gratitude, each day becomes a gift.

Paul’s program doesn’t come on a DVD, but when we take his advice we are bound to see results for our trouble spots. Our health will improve, our stress will be reduced and our daily performance boosted. More so, we develop the mind of Christ. Someone may even notice and comment, “Wow! She’s really in shape.” Get your mind in shape. Study, pray and exercise.

Marilyn Nutter is the author of three devotional books: Dressed up Moms’ Devotions to Go, Tea Lovers’ Devotions to Go, and Diva Delights Devotions to Go. She and her husband are new residents of the Charlotte, NC area. Marilyn enjoys speaking to women’s groups about discovering extraordinary treasures in ordinary days. Visit her website at www.marilynnutter.com. Read Marilyn’s devotions

A Mother’s Faith – Marilyn Nutter
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Then she placed the child in it, and put it among the reeds along the bank of the Nile.” Exodus 2:3 NIV

Watching my child board the school bus for her first day of school brought a lump to my throat. As her little legs climbed up the steep stairs, I whispered a prayer that she wouldn’t see me cry and her day would be special. I waved good-bye with a smile on my face but my heart felt otherwise. Many “letting go” times followed and each one caused my heart to skip. Years of prayer followed—school trips, overnight camp, acquiring a driver’s license, college, job seeking, and eventually watching my daughter walk down the aisle as a beautiful bride. As parents, each event took my husband and me to a new level of trust in God’s plan and protection for our daughter.

Moses’ mother gives us a great example of trusting God and “letting go.” Her son’s life in jeopardy, she turned her crisis and fear into faith. As Jochebed applied strokes of tar to waterproof the basket that would carry her son Moses down the Nile River, surely she too uttered many prayers. She trusted when she placed Moses in the basket that would carry him into crocodile infested waters. Her heart must have raced as she said good-bye.

God worked in her life because a princess found Moses and asked Miriam, Moses’ sister, to find a nurse. Of course, Miriam called her mother, Jochebed! What joy Jochebed must have felt when she was reunited with her son, if only for a few short years! Her release, rescue and final letting go were all part of God’s plan.

Jochebed’s actions show us how, in life changing events, faith can replace fear. Whether we are releasing children as they mature, or we personally release dreams, her example of letting go, encourages us to have faith in challenging situations and trust that God is in control.

Let go of the worry and fear—trust. Let Him take control in your life.

Marilyn Nutter is the author of three devotional books: Dressed up Moms’ Devotions to Go, Tea Lovers’ Devotions to Go, and Diva Delights Devotions to Go. She and her husband are new residents of the Charlotte, NC area. Marilyn enjoys speaking to women’s groups about discovering extraordinary treasures in ordinary days. Visit her website at www.marilynnutter.com. Read Marilyn’s devotions