God sees not as man sees…the LORD looks at the heart. I Samuel 16:7 (NAS)
It was only normal for the neighbors to call 911 when they heard the torturous screams of a child coming from the house next door. Not so normal for the police to be greeted by two soaking wet parents and to discover a toddler, wrapped in a beach towel, wedged beneath three sofa cushions.
It took a great deal of explanation for everyone to comprehend how washing my autistic granddaughter’s hair was like trying to baptize cats. Sandwiching her between sofa cushions provided total body compression and was a comfort to her.
On “S-Day” (shampoo day) the family bathroom was reminiscent of a well prepared surgical center. The tub was scrubbed and cleared of all objects, including the shower curtain, and lined with long bath mats. A soft rubber hose and shower head were attached to a padded faucet and next to the tub were placed wash cloths for quickly wiping eyes and ears, along with a cap-less bottle of shampoo. When the ordeal was over, my granddaughter would sob in ragged breaths that shook her shoulders and broke our hearts.
Now fast forward 15 years to the amazing photo of my granddaughter holding her long blonde pony tail for donation to Locks of Love. There, in the slightly different pose of an autistic child, is a portrait of pure love with no hidden agenda, no ulterior motive, no glory seeking or proud display of generosity. Instead is a living demonstration of the humility Jesus spoke of when He called a little child to sit with Him in answer to His disciples’ questions of who would be the greatest in the kingdom of Heaven. Verily I say unto you, except you be converted, and become as little children, you shall not even enter the kingdom of heaven. Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
You and I may never donate a pony tail to Locks of Love but we can pray, with God’s help, to be living portraits of His love, generously giving to others with a pure heart.
Penny Hunt, a.k.a. “The Bloom Lady,” is the wife of a career Naval Officer/Attaché and mother of five. Through her Blooming Where You Are Planted talks, seminars, and writing, she encourages and equips people from all walks of life in navigating the choppy waters of change. Penny is the author of an Amazon.com bestselling children’s book, Little White Squirrel’s Secret, the Faith Columnist for the Citizen News of Edgefield County, SC, and a popular speaker with a motivational, humorous message. An active member of her church and community, Penny resides in the rural peach-growing region of South Carolina. Contact Penny at: thebloomlady@gmail.com.





