After being betrayed by a close friend and let down by numerous others, the man became a recluse. He lived a lonely, solitary life separated from society. “I don’t need anyone,” he told himself—and anyone who dared to question—“not even God.”
The truth is that God did not create us to navigate this life alone. He created us for fellowship with Him and others. The Bible says two are better than one. That could mean a spouse, friend, family member, or co-worker. God knits hearts together so that we can live in community while helping, encouraging, and strengthening each other. Some say there is a direct link between our health and our relationships.
David had Jonathan, Ruth had Naomi, and Timothy had Paul. When we refuse to allow others into our lives, we are unfulfilled and incomplete. Before God created Eve as a helpmate for Adam, God declared that it was not good to be alone.
The Word for You Today says:
None of us can develop to our highest potential unless we’re plugged in to nurturing, life-giving relationships. The highest and best form of this relationship is referred to in Scripture as the “fellowship of the Spirit.” It’s not just a social, relational, or intellectual connection but a deep spiritual link that causes us to thrive.
Someone once said we should never stay where we’re simply tolerated; we should remain where we’re celebrated. Think of the people in your life. Do they cause you to thrive? If so, cherish and nourish those relationships. They are God’s gift.

Andrea Merrell is an award-winning author and professional freelance editor. She is an associate editor with Christian Devotions Ministries and former associate editor with Lighthouse Publishing of the Carolinas and Iron Stream Media. Andrea is the author of Murder of a Manuscript: Writing and Editing Tips to Keep Your Book Out of the Editorial Graveyard, Praying for the Prodigal, and Marriage: Make It or Break It. She has been published in numerous anthologies and online venues and teaches workshops on writing and editing. You’re invited to subscribe to her weekly devotions at www.AndreaMerrell.com or visit www.TheWriteEditing.com, a blog designed specifically for writers and editors.