When I was a teenager, my father died of a heart attack. We lived in Germany, and I was away at school in the States. At that point, my plans for the future changed significantly. I believed I needed to make my own decisions. Some of my choices were not the best. Nonetheless, I was determined to rely on my understanding. My friends in school were supportive, and I learned important principles for life from my teachers, but I needed to rely on the heavenly Father.
Although I had friends and teachers, I never had a mentor or someone who could give me good, personal advice and support. Too often, I was not open to some advice I received because I wanted to do what I wanted rather than what I needed.
Finally, I realized that even though I did not have an earthly father, I could turn to my heavenly Father anytime. I realized He was working behind the scenes to protect me from some of the consequences of my worst decisions. I was more open to trusting Him when I had no idea what to do.
Proverbs tells us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts rather than rely on our own understanding. We may be convinced what we want is best for us and will make us happy and fulfilled. However, God’s ways and thoughts are higher than ours. He knows the future and can save us from trouble, regret, and heartbreak.
The best decision is to seek the Lord’s wisdom, advice, and guidance, even if it seems contrary to our logic. Whether you have an earthly father or not, you have a heavenly Father who understands, loves, and helps you in all circumstances.
John Schliesser is a writer who is active in the prayer and prison ministries of his church. Since retirement from hospital administration, he has enjoyed helping his daughters with his nine grandchildren. Some of his activities include writing, working out, running, photography, and reading.